When Co-Sleeping Stops Working and How to Move Forward Gently
- Emma Bates
- Dec 26, 2025
- 1 min read
Updated: Dec 31, 2025
Co-sleeping often begins because it works.
For many families, especially working mums, there comes a point where it no longer feels sustainable.

Signs co-sleeping may no longer feel right
You may notice:
1. You are waking more than your child
2. Your sleep feels light and broken
3. Bedtime feels anxious
4. Returning to work has changed what feels manageable
5. You want space but feel guilty admitting it
Wanting change does not mean co-sleeping was wrong.
You are allowed to want something different
Wanting:
1. Better sleep
2. Space to rest
3. More predictable nights
does not mean you are rejecting your child.
What a gentle transition looks like
A gentle transition:
1. Happens gradually
2. Keeps comfort present
3. Supports separation anxiety
4. Avoids sudden change
Support through the transition
If you are currently co-sleeping and want a calm supported move into a cot or toddler bed, you do not need to figure this out alone.
This programme offers a clear step by step transition plan with daytime support, designed for working mums who want a gentle and manageable approach.





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